We often use euphemisms when dealing with taboo or sensitive subjects. We speak of "full-figured" women. We "fudge" on our income tax. We get "cold feet" before our wedding. In How Not to Say What You Mean, R.W. Holder offers an engaging volume that celebrates this human tendency to use mild, vague, or roundabout expressions rather than those which are blunt, precise, and true. Arranged in alphabetical order, this dictionary contains thousands of entertaining and informative entries ranging from such circumlocutions as a "fruit salad" (mixture of illegal narcotics), "arm candy" (a good-looking female companion), a "barrel-house" (a brothel), "birthday suit" (nakedness), and a "blue hair" (an old women).

Completely updated, the dictionary provides definitions, examples, as well as historical explanations where appropriate. Fun, fascinating, lively, and at times shocking, this new edition of How Not to Say What You Mean is a browser's delight and will appeal to all language and word play lovers, and anyone looking for a good laugh.

From the Back Cover
How Not To Say What You Mean unmasks the language of hypocrisy, evasion, prudery, and deceit. This hugely entertaining collection highlights our tendency to use mild, vague, or roundabout expressions in preference to words that are precise, blunt, and often uncomfortably accurate.

Entries, drawn from all aspects of life: work, sexuality, age, money, and politics, provide the real meaning for well-known phrases such as above your ceiling, gardening leave, rest and recreation, count the daisies, God's waiting room, washed up, and fact-finding mission.

From the Inside Flap
From its first appearance in 1987 as A Dictionary of American and British Euphemisms, Bob Holder's work has been the standard reference book tor those studying the language of evasion and understatement. This new edition, renamed How Not To Say What You Mean, has been completely rewritten. It retains old favourites while adding over a thousand new entries, which reflect modern euphemistic terms on such issues as marriage, race, homosexuality, drug-taking, and security of employment.

The quotations which accompany entries are both illustrative and interesting in their own right. Where appropriate, the etymology of a term is explained, giving a philological insight into this universally used, but little studied, branch of our language.

From Publishers Weekly
Delightful, quirky and exhaustive, Holder's dictionary of American and British circumlocutions is the kind of reference work that one can spend hours browsing through happily. This third edition includes thousands of alphabetized entries for both old-fashioned and contemporary terms. The term "uncover nakedness," for example, used be a standard Biblical translation for "copulate," though many people wouldn't recognize that use today. (Incidentally, "to line" also meant to copulate, and Holder cites part of Shakespeare's As You Like It as an example of such use: "Winter garments must be lined/So must slender Rosaline.") "Deep six," "underprivileged" and "rip off" still enjoy healthy use, and in Ireland "scuttered" still means "drunk." For Holder, however, this project is about more than just having fun with word games. In fine Orwellian spirit, Holder writes in his introduction that euphemism is "the language of evasion, of hypocrisy, of prudery, and of deceit," which makes it all the more important to be able to see through the embroidery.

Contents

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An Explanation Bibliography A Dictionary of Euphemisms Thematic Index  Abortion and Miscarriage  Age  Aircraft  Animals  Auctions and Real Estate  Bankruptcy and Indebtedness  Bawds and Pimps  Boasting and Flattery  Breasts  Bribery  Brothels  Charity  Cheating  Childbirth and Pregnancy  Clothing  Commerce, Banking, and Industry  Contraception  Copulation  Cosmetics  Courtship and Marriage  Cowardice  Crime (other than Stealing)  Cuckoldry  Death  Defecation  Dismisssal  Drunkenness  Education  Employment  Entertainment  Erections and Orgasms  Espionage  Extortion and Violence  Farting  Female Genitalia  Funerals  Gambling  Illegitimacy and Parentage  Illness and Injury  Intoxicants  Killing and Suicide  Lavatories  Low Intelligence  Lying  Male Genitalia  Masturbation  Menstruation  Mental illness  Mistresses and Lovers  Nakedness  Narcotics  Obesity  Parts of the Body (other than genitalia and breasts)  Police  Politics  Pornography  Poverty and Parsimony  Pregnancy  Prison  Prostitution  Race  Religion and Superstition  Sexual Pursuit  Sexual Variations  Stealing  Sweat  Urination  Venereal Disease  Vulgarisms  Warfare  Unclassified Entries

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